i have a 1996 ram extended cab and i am confused on which lowering kit i should use. i don't wanna go super low, but i don't wanna be at stock hieght anymore. i want that kind of hot rod look. and i don't want it to bust me at the bank either, can anyone give me some advise? please!!!!  

DJM offers a few kits for your truck. You have to decide how low & how much you spend. Copy & paste this into your address bar:
http://www.stylintrucks.com/sn.aspx?category%7ccategory_root%7c-30=Suspension  

thats where i am confused, i owned a 94 chevy that had a 4/6 drop but that was i thought too low. i plan on running 18's on, i just want it to fill the wheel wells and still have a hot rod look